What Can I Say?

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What Can I Say?: A Kid's Guide to Super-Useful Social Skills

 

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • FROM THE AUTHOR OF HOW TO BE A PERSON

Written by Catherine Newman and illustrated by Debbie Fong, What Can I Say? is a practical, supportive social skills guide designed for kids and tweens ages 10 and up.

Middle school and upper elementary years bring complex social dynamics, making it tough for young people to know what to say in tricky moments. Featuring accessible scripts, visual comic-style scenarios, and a non-judgmental tone, Newman breaks down communication into actionable steps—empowering kids to build healthy relationships, set boundaries, and practice empathy.

"Saying the right thing isn't about being perfect; it's about showing care, respect, and clear communication."

Core Skills & Everyday Scenarios Covered:

  • Inclusivity & Active Listening: How to welcome others into group conversations, show genuine interest, and listen thoughtfully.

  • Navigating Conflicts & Bullying: Practical scripts to address offensive comments, shut down gossip, and stand up for oneself and others safely.

  • Expressing Care & Sympathy: Finding gentle words to comfort a friend during sad, awkward, or stressful moments.

  • Respecting Identity & Boundaries: Guidance on asking for and using pronouns correctly, setting personal boundaries, and navigating early crushes or asking someone out.

  • Building Trust: Learning how to be a dependable friend, keep confidences, and apologize sincerely when mistakes happen.

Key Features Breakdown:

Feature Description Impact on Young Readers
Real-Life Scripts Word-for-word examples for common situations Gives kids concrete phrases to use when feeling tongue-tied.
Graphic Novel Elements Playful illustrations and comic-strip examples Keeps the advice visual, engaging, and easy to digest.
Empathetic Approach Warm, non-preachy tone Normalizes awkward social mistakes while teaching accountability.

Perfect For:

  • Tweens & Middle Schoolers (Ages 10–14): Kids navigating changing friendships, new school environments, and social anxieties.

  • Parents & Educators: A great resource for counseling sessions, advisory classes, or at-home conversations about digital and in-person social etiquette.

  • Fans of Practical Life-Skills Books: Excellent companion to Catherine Newman's How to Be a Person or Cara Natterson's Guy Stuff and The Care and Keeping of You.

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